English Phrases for Asking for Help
Everyone needs help sometimes: with a heavy bag, a confusing ticket machine or a word you don't understand. These phrases help you get someone's attention, ask politely and thank people in a natural way.
33 phrases · By LearnLingo Team · Updated
Tap to hear a phrase. Levels follow the CEFR scale. American English is the default; British variants are noted.
Getting someone's attention
| English | Turkish | You might hear |
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Excuse me, could you help me? A1"Excuse me" is the polite way to start talking to a stranger. | Affedersiniz, bana yardım edebilir misiniz? |
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Sorry to bother you. A2Use it before asking a busy person for help. | Rahatsız ettiğim için kusura bakmayın. |
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Do you have a minute? A2 | Bir dakikanız var mı? |
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Can I ask you something? A1 | Size bir şey sorabilir miyim? |
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Do you work here? A1Useful in shops and stations before asking a question. | Burada mı çalışıyorsunuz? |
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I'm sorry, I'm a bit lost. A2 | Kusura bakmayın, biraz kayboldum. |
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Making the request
| English | Turkish | You might hear |
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Could you help me with this? A2 | Bu konuda bana yardım edebilir misiniz? |
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Can you give me a hand? A2Informal. Often used for physical help, like carrying something. | Bana bir el atabilir misin? |
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Would you mind helping me with my bag? B1Answer "Not at all" to say yes. "Would you mind" is followed by the -ing form. | Çantamı taşımama yardım eder misiniz acaba? |
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Could you do me a favor? B1UK spelling: "favour". | Bana bir iyilik yapabilir misin? |
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I was wondering if you could help me. B2Very polite. Good for emails and people you don't know. | Acaba bana yardım edebilir misiniz diye merak ediyordum. |
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Could you show me how this works? A2 | Bunun nasıl çalıştığını gösterebilir misiniz? |
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Could you take a photo of us? A2 | Bizim bir fotoğrafımızı çekebilir misiniz? |
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Can you keep an eye on my things for a minute? B1 | Bir dakika eşyalarıma göz kulak olabilir misiniz? |
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Help with language and understanding
| English | Turkish | You might hear |
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Sorry, could you say that again? A1 | Pardon, tekrar söyleyebilir misiniz? |
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Could you speak a little more slowly, please? A2 | Biraz daha yavaş konuşabilir misiniz, lütfen? |
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What does this word mean? A1 | Bu kelime ne anlama geliyor? |
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How do you say this in English? A1 | Bunu İngilizcede nasıl söylersiniz? |
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Could you write it down for me? A2Very useful for addresses, names and numbers. | Benim için yazabilir misiniz? |
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I'm not sure I understand. Could you explain? B1 | Anladığımdan emin değilim. Açıklayabilir misiniz? |
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Help with tech and everyday tasks
| English | Turkish | You might hear |
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My phone is dead. Could I use your charger? A2A "dead" phone has no battery left. | Telefonumun şarjı bitti. Şarj aletinizi kullanabilir miyim? |
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The machine isn't taking my card. A2 | Makine kartımı kabul etmiyor. |
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Do you know the Wi-Fi password? A1 | Wi-Fi şifresini biliyor musunuz? |
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I can't get this to work. B1 | Bunu bir türlü çalıştıramıyorum. |
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Could you help me fill out this form? A2UK: "fill in this form". | Bu formu doldurmama yardım edebilir misiniz? |
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Could you lend me a pen? A2You lend something to someone. You borrow something from someone. | Bana bir kalem ödünç verebilir misiniz? |
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Can I borrow your phone for a second? Mine is dead. B1 | Telefonunuzu bir saniye ödünç alabilir miyim? Benimkinin şarjı bitti. |
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Accepting, refusing and thanking
| English | Turkish | You might hear |
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Thanks so much, I really appreciate it. A2 | Çok teşekkürler, gerçekten minnettarım. |
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That's really kind of you. A2 | Çok naziksiniz. |
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You're a lifesaver! B1Informal and warm. Used for small favors too. | Hayatımı kurtardın! |
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I'm okay, thanks. A1A polite way to say you don't need help. | Gerek yok, teşekkürler. |
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Thanks, but I think I've got it. B1 | Teşekkürler ama sanırım hallettim. |
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Sorry for the trouble. B1 | Zahmet verdim, kusura bakmayın. |
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Sample dialogues
At a ticket machine
- Can
- Excuse me, sorry to bother you. Do you have a minute?
- Affedersiniz, rahatsız ettiğim için kusura bakmayın. Bir dakikanız var mı?
- Woman
- Sure, what's the problem?
- Tabii, sorun nedir?
- Can
- The machine isn't taking my card.
- Makine kartımı kabul etmiyor.
- Woman
- Oh, this one only takes contactless. Try tapping it here.
- Ah, bu sadece temassız kabul ediyor. Buraya dokundurmayı deneyin.
- Can
- It worked! Could you show me which ticket I need for downtown?
- Oldu! Şehir merkezi için hangi bileti almam gerektiğini gösterebilir misiniz?
- Woman
- Sure, press "single ride" and then "zone one".
- Tabii, "tek yolculuk"a sonra da "birinci bölge"ye basın.
- Can
- Got it. Thanks so much, I really appreciate it.
- Anladım. Çok teşekkürler, gerçekten minnettarım.
- Woman
- Happy to help. Have a good day!
- Yardımcı olabildiysem ne mutlu. İyi günler!
Asking a colleague for a favor
- Selin
- Hey Jake, could you do me a favor?
- Selam Jake, bana bir iyilik yapabilir misin?
- Jake
- Sure, what is it?
- Tabii, nedir?
- Selin
- I can't get the projector to work, and my meeting starts in ten minutes.
- Projektörü bir türlü çalıştıramıyorum ve toplantım on dakika sonra başlıyor.
- Jake
- Let me have a look. Ah, the cable was loose.
- Bir bakayım. Ah, kablo gevşekmiş.
- Selin
- You're a lifesaver! Sorry for the trouble.
- Hayatımı kurtardın! Zahmet verdim, kusura bakma.
- Jake
- No trouble at all. Do you need anything else?
- Hiç zahmet değil. Başka bir şeye ihtiyacın var mı?
- Selin
- I'm okay now, thanks.
- Şimdilik gerek yok, teşekkürler.
Common mistakes Turkish speakers make
Can you help me? I need help!
Excuse me, could you help me, please?
"I need help!" sounds like an emergency in English. For everyday help, start with "Excuse me" and use "could" and "please".
Can you borrow me a pen?
Can you lend me a pen?
Turkish "ödünç" covers both directions. In English you borrow from someone and lend to someone.
Would you mind to help me?
Would you mind helping me?
"Would you mind" is always followed by the -ing form of the verb.
Would you mind helping me? Yes, of course.
Would you mind helping me? No, not at all.
"Would you mind" literally asks if it is a problem. To agree, say "Not at all" or "No problem".
Help me with this bag.
Could you help me with this bag?
A command without "could" or "please" sounds rude to strangers. A short question is the normal way to ask for help.
Quick quiz
Eight questions to check what you remember. Pick an answer to see if it is right.
1. How do you politely start talking to a stranger?
2. Complete: "Would you mind ___ the door?"
3. Someone asks "Would you mind helping me?" You are happy to help. You say:
4. Choose the correct sentence:
5. "Can you give me a hand?" means:
6. Which is the most polite request?
7. Someone helps you a lot. Which reply sounds warm and natural?
8. A shop assistant asks if you need help, but you don't. You say:
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- Excuse me,
- opening
- Not at all.
- Can I borrow your charger?
- Can you help me?
- I was wondering if you could help me.
- Thanks so much, I really appreciate it.
- I'm okay, thanks. Just looking.
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People also ask
Is "can" or "could" better for asking for help?+
Both are fine. "Could" sounds a little more polite, so it is the safer choice with strangers, staff and people you don't know well.
How do I answer "Would you mind...?"+
If you are happy to help, say "Not at all" or "No problem". The question literally asks whether it bothers you, so "Yes" would mean you don't want to.
What should I say after someone helps me?+
"Thank you so much" is always good. Add "I really appreciate it" or "That's really kind of you" for bigger favors. With friends, "You're a lifesaver!" is warm and natural.
What if I need urgent help?+
In a real emergency, be direct: "Help!" or "Call an ambulance!" is correct then. See the LearnLingo emergency phrasebook for those situations.
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